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I went through the exact same type of thing back in January of this year: Bad, bad drama with someone I used to be close to, and it ruined me for months. The drama also spilled into mutual friends and I lost some good people who suddenly hated my guts. I also made a news post about it and it took a lot of willpower to go to that point.
Venting about this kinda thing here is absolutely okay, even necessary, since online people are less likely to judge you because they don't know as much about you, and are more likely to be friendly on here. There's always at least one person who cares about you both from the internet and IRL. Heck, I'm only here because I saw your post on the artist news.
From my experience, two major things will help you: Time and how you spend it. Some people need as little as a month or as much as a year to recover from any ruined relationship. What matters is that life goes on, and you'll inevitably realize you're not in the wrong, and you can tell yourself that the other person wasn't worth your time from the start. You'll be fine as long as you have your mind occupied as much as possible, and remember what to do if this sorta thing ever comes up again in the future.
I wouldn't recommend you delete this post, but do what you wish by all means

I was originally gonna delete this when I saw that I got a notification because I thought “oh no that woe is me post” but now I think I’m gonna leave it up for now.

I don’t like venting because not only is it* extremely awkward the morning after I post it, I don’t want people to think im an incoherent mess of a person that does nothing but talk about how shitty my life is (I recognize that venting is a privilege in of itself) and although im still kind of uncomfortable doing it, after reading your comment i recognize that sometimes i just have to let people know what’s going on in my life in order to help move on.

Thank you a lot for the kind words man. That last paragraph made something click in my head. It made me realize what I have to do: take time to get over it and do something that makes me happy in order to not be stuck in a rut anymore in the meantime.

Thank you so much. I mean it.

@Webtoon - I guarantee that people will not think you're an incoherent pessimist, because tough times and accidents happen. Anyone who mocks you for these feelings are obviously wrong, and everyone has your back here

I really appreciate your sentiment. Thank you

It's not my business at all, so I hope it's not rude commenting... but I agree with OHFN, everything is fine about your "venting" post, seems like what you're going through is hard. i've been through gaslighting and similar things as well, long unpleasant journey it is. there's nothing wrong about this post tmo. Do what you think you need to do, And I hope you find solutions and it gets better! Strength for all that!

edit: And enjoy the Boss ;)

Thanks a lot. Like I mentioned in my post, I know I’ll get over it soon, it’s just hard to keep a level thought sometimes. Also it’s not rude at all, but thanks for being respectful all the more.

Also also that boss is sick, thanks for mentioning that <3